The Insignificant Other

A man burst in to my life when I was least expecting it, and certainly wasn’t looking for anyone, or a new relationship. To say he swept me off my feet is an understatement and we both felt the fireworks from the get go. Two years in, the magic is still there, it just often struggles to find its way out of the tangled web of, what he and I suspect, is #ADHD

I say ‘suspect’ since we haven’t yet been for a diagnosis, however if my desperate internet research is to be believed, the mannerisms and behaviours tick all the boxes.

I have decided to put my thoughts in to words for many reasons, firstly to free some of the perplexed marbles in the maze of my mind, secondly to provide some support & solidarity to others who may be in my position and thirdly to focus my attention when his attention is anywhere else but with me.

I considered writing a book, I think I am quite good with words, humorous and entertaining, but also endearing, considerate and empathetic.

This is my first post, lets see how it goes but at least it will prevent me from going insane, or exploding or giving up on the whole relationship to save my sanity, which is the last thing I want to do.

Hope to ‘entertain’ you soon.

Bye for now

The Insignificant Other (TIO)

#adhd

#lonelywoman

#lovethisman